|
Rank: Advanced Member  Groups: Registered
Joined: 12/3/2009 Posts: 3,157 Location: Huddersfield
|
Thanks Jenni, great to hear that Debbie's home again. I don't know how you find the energy for all that digging Kathleen! Doreen xx
|
|
Rank: Advanced Member  Groups: Registered
Joined: 12/3/2009 Posts: 690
|
Hi Jenni,
Pleased to hear that our poor Debbie is back home and please pass on my love.
love
Barbara XXXXXX
|
|
Rank: Advanced Member
Groups: Registered
Joined: 12/7/2009 Posts: 235
|
Hi all, thank you so much for your well wishes. I have pleurisy and a suspected pulmonary embolism. During my time in hospital, my membership lapsed and I couldn't log on to speak to you all!!!  I misssed you all!!! So someone ( not sure who - THANK YOU ) alerted NRAS who have very kindly allowed me on to speak to you all and I will arrange to renew. I am allowed home on bed rest, pleurisy is sooooo painful. I have an emergency appt with the rheumy on Tuesday at the day hospital, to start stronger treatment, maybe not methotrexate. My liver scan shows fatty liver due to steroids so if anyone has any tips, it would be appreciated. The plan is to get me off the steroids. My kidney function is detoriating again. It was weird being in hospital, when you are ill all the time. Some people make such a fuss over things we put up with daily. I had injections to thin my blood and some people squealed over them  and made a fuss about vomiting etc. I founbd it hard to disguise my trembles and muscle spasms and they attracted a fair few comments. Nurses so discriminate against the young. I was not asked about mobility or care needs as I was 'young'. Yet when the physio finally got to me they were horrified and I was given a zimmer frame (  ) and have been referred to neurophysio for assessment as it was clear that crutches and stick is just not enough support for me anymore How have you all found hospital? I missed my neuro appt and the doc wouldnt sanction me going in hospital transport as he said it was too dangerous for me to leave ward (  ) so it has been rearranged to the end of the month. I hope people get to read this as I havent started a new thread, I so appreciate all your support and Jens texts. Thank you so much also to whoever alerted NRAS to my plight. Hugs to all my good NRAS friends Deb x
|
|
Rank: Advanced Member  Groups: Registered
Joined: 12/3/2009 Posts: 3,157 Location: Huddersfield
|
Hi Debbie,
Lovely to hear from you, I'm so pleased you are at home now. I agree with you about people making a fuss over things we put up with all the time, it is very annoying. I hope you start feeling a lot better soon and can enjoy Easter with your family.
Love and hugs, Doreen xx
|
|
Rank: Advanced Member  Groups: Registered
Joined: 12/3/2009 Posts: 1,689 Location: Durham
|
Hi Debbie, I`m so pleased you`re home again, but sorry you have been so poorly, and hope things will improve for you very soon. I hope you get some answers from the neurologist. Yes, some people squeal at the slightest thing, especially if it`s needle-shaped!! Last time I was in, it wasn`t a rheumy ward, and what annoyed me was at breakfast time they would bring the toast, and just leave the marmalade sachet thingy on the tray - which I could never get open!! Take care, Kathleen x
|
|
Rank: Advanced Member  Groups: Registered
Joined: 12/3/2009 Posts: 1,740
|
Hello lovely Debbie welcome back to forum,glad,youve been able get on again after problems. aww what time your having wish you well for tuesday appointments,thats annoying but doc right you were best to stay put while on ward. oh yes the fuss pots over things we do all time,or have done to us.lol the Ot etc i agree when young not me but my hubby didnt get assesment before discharged or helped to pack and on crutches. so last time i explained he cartn do it after ops balance goes bad then they bent over backwards to apolgise grr. sorry see they treat you such manner grr.d now you rest up as doctors ordered. your welcome support anytime. hugs melly cuddly cats make my world seem so much more fun
|
|
Rank: Advanced Member  Groups: Registered
Joined: 12/8/2009 Posts: 124 Location: Wolverhampton
|
Dear Debbie,
So sorry to hear you have been so poorly but glad to hear you are back home.
I am unable to help in respect of the fatty liver issue but had wanted to send you my best wishes.
Take care, Nina x
|
|
Rank: Advanced Member
Groups: Registered
Joined: 12/3/2009 Posts: 854
|
Dear Debbie,
I am so glad that you are home. Sending you lots of best wishes and just so sorry that you are having to endure all of this. You are so right, there is a discrimination against the young too with assumptions being made that, because you are a certain number in age ,you can/cannot do certain things. People, medical or otherwise are so ignorant.
Eleanor x
|
|
Rank: Advanced Member  Groups: Registered
Joined: 12/3/2009 Posts: 2,237 Location: nr Southampton
|
hi Deb
You know that every time I am in hospital I come against this age discrimination and it drives me mad. Also think its offensive to older people to assume they cannot manage when they can!
Sorry so much of the body is giving you a rough time. much love to you- the neuro trembling in the morning is something I am familiar with!
Love as ever
Jenni xxhow to be a velvet bulldoser
|
|
Rank: Advanced Member  Groups: Registered
Joined: 12/3/2009 Posts: 3,006 Location: Timperley
|
Oh Debbie - I am so sad you were treated in this way. Words just fail me. All I can do is send a huge huge cyber hug and pray that you are given the correct treatment, delivered in a kind, compassionate and caring manner from now on. Much love Jeanxxxxx
|
|
Rank: Advanced Member  Groups: Registered
Joined: 12/4/2009 Posts: 1,524 Location: W. Yorkshire
|
Hello Debbie and welcome home, you sound to have gone through a horrible and painful time. YES I'VE CHANGED, PAIN DOES THAT TO PEOPLE.
|
|
Rank: Advanced Member  Groups: Registered
Joined: 12/10/2009 Posts: 653 Location: Notts
|
You sound as if you've had an awful time, Debbie, I'm glad you're slowly recovering.
Lyn
|
|
Rank: Advanced Member  Groups: Registered
Joined: 12/3/2009 Posts: 357
|
Hi Debbie, I hope that you're feeling a little better, I was appalled to read at the way you were treated in hospital, I think that it reinforces what I've heard a number of times, the fact that despite their best intentions some staff simply don't know how best to deal with a patient with RA, let alone the other problems you're having. If needed contact the local NRAS group with your concerns. I'm sure it's something they might be able to address with the powers that be. My thoughts are with you and I hope you feel better soon. Jo. 2012 Fundraising for the National Rheumatoid Arthritis Society (NRAS) http://uk.virginmoneygiving.com/RoboJo
|
|
Rank: Advanced Member
Groups: Registered
Joined: 12/7/2009 Posts: 235
|
Thanks all. I was unable to log into the site again. So, am just catching up again!!!!
I am taking one day at a time. I have been to the rheumy today, they fitted me in and he has given me steroid injections into my joints. Apparently I have bursitis in my hips and shoulders!!! I am going to Majorca on Friday, so hopefully I will be more mobile by then!!!
Jenni, sorry to hear that you have the neuro stuff as well, do you know what causes yours? If you don't mind me asking?
Deb x
|
|
Rank: Advanced Member  Groups: Registered
Joined: 12/3/2009 Posts: 1,582 Location: Oxfordshire
|
Dear Deb,
So sad at the way you were treated in hospital.
I have only spent long periods in hospital as a child so I cannot really offer advice, but it must have been very mentally challenging!
Have a wonderful time in Majorca (gorgeous place) and take good care,
Love,
Amanda
|
|
Rank: Advanced Member  Groups: Registered
Joined: 12/3/2009 Posts: 1,081
|
Hi Debbie - hope the steroid injections kick in before your holiday. Hope you have a fantastic time and that the sunshine helps to calm things down.
Julie
|
|
Rank: Advanced Member  Groups: Registered
Joined: 12/3/2009 Posts: 1,740
|
Hi have a fab holiday Heres to steriod jabs kicking in and you feeling brighter hips shoulders ouchy. hugs lv melly cuddly cats make my world seem so much more fun
|
|
Rank: Advanced Member  Groups: Registered
Joined: 12/3/2009 Posts: 3,157 Location: Huddersfield
|
Hope the steroids work well for you Debbie.
Have a lovely holiday.
Love, Doreen xx
|
|
Rank: Advanced Member
Groups: Registered
Joined: 12/7/2009 Posts: 235
|
Thanks all, will chat when I get back!!!!!!! Have rejoined so no probs now!!!!! Can't get rid of me Wishing everyone a painfree week! Deb x
|
|
|
|